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From Family Life

March 9, 2009

What Is Happening in Our World?

by Barbara Rainey

Since the U.S. economy started its sharp slide last fall, I've done a lot of thinking about what this all means to me, to my family, and to our nation and world. While watching this downturn, my thoughts have gone from, "This is interesting" to "This is perplexing." If it keeps falling, the prevailing emotions could inch nearer to frightening.

For now, the word "perplexing" accurately describes my vantage point. My family has been affected in several ways. My husband, Dennis, is working harder than ever here at FamilyLife, putting in 50-hour weeks trying to find ways to cut expenses and increase revenue. I just talked to one of our sons who said they are living hand to mouth, barely making ends meet. And I know it's true. Their pantry was bare when we visited last month. Another son and our son-in-law are both doing the same, working harder than ever trying to keep their families fed and their payments made.

These are not "business as usual" days. What our country is experiencing clearly isn't a brief downturn where things will return to normal in a few months.

What complicates it even further is that the American economy is a global issue. This leads to the question, What is God up to?

While I do not have the answer, I think it's good that we ask questions like this. We who claim to belong to God must be measuring our experience against the truth. We know that God is not passive. He is not sitting idly by just watching. That is not His character. Instead, God is intricately and intimately involved in the rise and fall of nations and in the comings and goings of all people.

Yesterday in my Bible study class I heard a verse that I do not think I've ever noticed before. It was as if lights flashed around it, dramatically grabbing my attention. This one short phrase fits this season of our American life perfectly: "And He will be the stability of your times" (Isaiah 33:6).

That's the bottom line. No matter what God is up to in the world today, no matter what course the current economic crisis takes, no matter what the political leaders in Washington do, God is the stability of our times.

It reminds me of the first line of an old hymn: "My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness." Our hope cannot be in money, a job, our house, our friends or family, and certainly our hope cannot be in Washington, D.C. All of those will disappoint.

Our hope must be in Christ alone for only there will we find true stability as individuals, in our marriages and in our families. In Christ alone, and in the power of His Word, we can find the strength we need to face the challenges of today.

I remain perplexed at our current state. And at the same time I am cautiously optimistic and even hesitantly excited at what God might be doing. Could this be part of the end times? It's possible. Will our businesses and families be better for this pruning and winnowing work of God? If we cooperate with Him in this there is no question we will be better for having been pruned.

Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 4:8 that he was "perplexed, but not despairing" when he was in the midst of trials and troubles. I have found great comfort in recent seasons of suffering in that short phrase. It is okay to be confused, baffled, and even mystified at the circumstances of my life. I can be perplexed and still be found having faith. Only when I move to despair, which means hopelessness, am I not living in faith.

We cannot know what tomorrow will bring but we know the One who will bring it. And that alone can keep us from despair as He brings stability to our times.

January days

Why do I have to get so blue this time of the year? I really dont' know. It just comes upon me and there I am. It always goes away of course and it is only for a little while.
I have always loved the snow but so many people hate it that it makes me feel sullen.
I love to embrace every season, so why be sad? It just is. It just is. Parents are gone, brother is gone, days of getting excited about the holidays and doing traditional things are gone. It is sad but I have always held to making new traditions while holding on to the old ones. Blend them you know?
But this year, I don't even know what happened to Christmas. No gifts, not tree, no outdoor decorations. No stress!!! Weird.
Maybe having a broken ankle had something to do with it. I long to have weeks and times to just relax and so I had them but for some reason they didn't give me the time to be with God that I thought it would.
I feel like I am losing Him even tho I know that is not true.
I hate feeling life is incomplete. And that is how I feel. All the pieces are not right. I dont' know where I fit!
So how do I just let it all come to pass? I know God is leading, he is there of course, always and I feel him close by but I feel like, no I KNOW I am not letting myself just BE. There is this wall that won't let me pass, enter, go thru so I can relax, stop worrying. I hold myself back of course. I refuse to allow myself to be forgiven. I refuse to let go. It is self punishment. What is with that????
That is totally gross but that is it. Punishing myself, continuing to think I am not free because of whatever I have done...I can't let go of it. How I long to be free. Free to live without guilt and unforgiveness. Free to live like a person who knows Jesus has set me free. I am not free!!!
Lord, help me to be free. Don't let me be held back by my own self condemnation.
01/09/09

Remember what Christmas is about....

 In an ordinary stable, He had an extraordinary birth.
 
 And that ordinary baby grew into an extraordinary man.
 
 With ordinary words, He shared an extraordinary message.
 
 And on an ordinary cross, He died an extraordinary death.
 
 But an ordinary, empty tomb proved His extraordinary miracle...
 
 So that ordinary people can have extraordinary Life.
 
MAY YOUR HEART BE FILLED 
WITH THE EXTRAORDINARY 
TRUTH OF CHRISTMAS!

The Bible and our Leaders

This is from the website below. It is worthy of this long read and to take seriously.

“I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers,  
intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; For kings,  
and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and  
peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. For this is good and  
acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; Who will have all men to  
be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth. For there is  
one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;  
Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time” (1  
Timothy 2:1-6).

Paul says that praying for the government should be of the highest  
priority. It should be “first of all.” Prayer is one of the most  
important things in the Christian life and can accomplish more than  
political action. As J.B. Buffington wisely observed, “The answer is  
not in the White House but in God’s house.” Through the power of  
prayer, Bible-believing churches can have an influence far beyond  
their numbers. This is why we need to establish the habit of daily  
private intercessory prayer. Paul spoke of “my prayers” (Rom. 1:9).  
This is also why we should pray corporately. It is a very sad and  
telling fact that many churches no longer have a serious weekly prayer  
meeting, and those that do find that it is scantily attended.

The passage gives two reasons why God’s people need to pray for their  
governments.

First, we need to pray so that we might lead a quiet and peaceable  
life in all godliness and honesty (1 Tim. 2:2).

Observe that we are not to pray for peace so that we can pursue our  
own selfish aims. We are to pray for peace so that we might be rich  
toward God’s business rather than toward our own. Too often God’s  
people turn aside from godliness during times of peace and prosperity;  
they seek their own will and pleasure ahead of God’s. Look at America  
and Canada. Most churches are fat and worldly and lukewarm about God’s  
work; they are entertaining and mollifying the saints rather than  
challenging them to put Christ first. Look at the older saints. The  
tendency is to settle down, to seek security and comfort, while being  
half-hearted about obeying God and fulfilling the Great Commission.

Observe that we are to live in “all godliness.” Too often the churches  
that are living in times of peace and prosperity are characterized by  
worldliness rather than purity. Observe, too, that we are to live  
“honestly.” This is in contrast to every form of dishonesty, to  
stealing, crooked business practices, borrowing and not repaying,  
slacking off on the job, and such.

Second, we need to pray so that the gospel might be preached to all  
men (1 Tim. 2:3-6).

The Lord Jesus commanded that the gospel be preached to every person  
(Mark 16:15), and in 1 Timothy 2 we see why, because God wants all men  
to be saved. This work of world evangelism is called the “great  
commission,” because it is so emphasized in the New Testament (Mat.  
28:19-20; Mark 16:15; Luke 24:46-48; John 20:21; Acts 1:8). This work  
is carried out more effectively in conditions of peace. Some say that  
what North American churches need is persecution, and there is some  
truth to that, but at the same time persecution hinders the free  
preaching of the gospel. Consider China. The governmental persecution  
there against the public preaching of the gospel and the free  
gathering of non-registered churches and the totalitarian control of  
the media, including the internet, means that a large percentage of  
the people haven’t heard the gospel. The same is true for Muslim  
nations such as Iran and Saudi Arabia. Consider the example of Nepal.  
Prior to the 1990s, it was illegal to preach the gospel in Nepal and  
as a result the number of churches was very small and the vast  
majority of the people knew nothing of the gospel. In the early 1990s  
there was a change in the constitution and governmental persecution  
ceased. Since then, the number of churches has increased dramatically  
and multitudes have heard the gospel that otherwise would not have  
under the previous conditions.

God would not have exhorted us to pray for kings and those in  
authority if He did not intend to answer those prayers. Through the  
power of prayer we have the privilege of making a dramatic difference  
in this present world.

Surprise vacations!

Does anyone ever stop being amazed by what God plans for us?
We just returned from Cancun! That is such a beautiful place! The sky is blue!!!! I mean blue that we don't see here in our pollution skies. The water matched it but would change colors as soon as you could blink. Greens and blues and every variation. 
We were so blessed to take friends with us and to have a place where people couldn't wait to help with anything we could want!
And so that brings me to my complete appreciation of our vacation. On the second night of our vacation I took a tumble down some steps and broke my ankle!
This was the easiest vacation under the hardest circumstances I've ever had to deal with!!!!
After a trip to the Cancun hospital which in itself was interesting. The care was excellent, our concierge from the resort went with us and interpreted. The dr. was wonderful. But the hospital itself was so plain, so sterile looking. no pictures on walls, nothing to feel more at home. We are very blessed in this country to have such nice places to be sick in!!!!
The next few days brought long wonderful hours by the pool and working on my tan. Lots of food and service that spoiled me to no end! I do not understand why it is so different here at home!!! sheesh! Bob just looks at me as wonders if I really think he resembles in any way one of the Mexicano servers!!!!
Coming home was a mess. The shuttle to the airport was late, the wheelchair wasn't available, the elevator was broken and 4 men escorted me down the escalator! THAT was interesting! THEN I had to climb up the stairway to the plane. More men praying at one time than I've seen in a long long time! I made it! I felt like Rocky when I got to the top! VICTORY!!! I even won a bottle of champagne on the plane for answering a questionaire. Obviously they had not read it or the champagne may have ended up on me!
So we get thru customs at O'hare and then our shuttle wasn't around so we froze waiting for it. We finally get to the car and the battery is dead. Hallelujah for AAA! They came to the rescue. we warmed up and then stopped at iHop for food when my crutches came apart and I fell! I was fine but by now all of our nerves are at the end and we all started laughing til we cried.
But you know what, we me made it home and here I am!!!
God was soooo in charge. well of course he always is but I got to see it first hand. He stretched our limits and then brought praise to our lips.
Even while I was in pain there was praise on my lips. I don't understand how I could do that, it makes no sense. I had low times and cried but I just knew God was there holding me tight and just letting me spill tears and cry out with feelings of sorrow and sadness.
He is so comforting.
If you do not know that kind of Love of God and care and compassion like that, I will be glad to point you in the direction!
For God so loved the world He gave His one and only Son....those words are huge for he loves each and every one of the people in the world as if we were the one and only to be loved and known.
This is one vacation that I will always remember!!!! What a wild ride!!!

Joy comes in the morning

Oh how joy comes in the morning: Psalm 45:2-6 "My heart overflows with a good theme; I address my verses to the King; my tongue is the pen of a ready writer. You are fairer than the sons of men; grace is poured upon Your lips; therefore God has blessed You forever. Gird Your sword on Your thigh, O Mighty One, in Your splendor and Your majesty! And in Your majesty ride on victoriously, for the cause of truth and meekness and righteousness; let Your right hand teach You awesome things. your arrows are sharp, the peoples fall under You; Your arrows are in the heart of the King's enemies. your throne, O God is forever and ever; a scepter of uprightness is the scepter of Your kingdom. You have loved righteousness and hated wickedness; therefore God, your God, has appointed You with the oil of joy above Your fellows."

The woes of lost friendship

Well, this is my very first blog ever and I feel it is the leading of the Holy Spirit to give me a place to express my heart and also to get some things in perspective.
Frankly I am not too interested and even a bit afraid to know others can read this so am not sure just how this will pan out. But with God leading I can press forward.
So, with that said, here goes:
There is a deep unrelenting sadness when a person is no longer a part of your life. Death doesn't separate us, but a parting of the ways seems like death. I wish it were death, it would be almost easier to deal with.
Someone that I had known for a long time, we came to Christ together and I know Christ brought us together, have not spoken for over a year. It is harder to know that Christ has caused our going down different paths yet both still following Christ or at least I hope so on this person's part.
I recently found out one of her daughter's got married and until I found out via a sign in their driveway, I had not realized just how deep the severing of our friendship had gone. I was shocked at first and then I felt God released me even more from that relationship. But now I mourn our loss and I wonder if reconnecting is wise.
Those might not be the right words for I truly have no desire to reconnect with her at all. Her problems are so huge and overpowering that I lose my life and live in her world.
That really is what caused the breakdown and why I was the one to bring it to it's miserable end.
It is a lofty and hard responsibility to be the one that ends a friendship. It is not a burden that I wished to carry.
We actually parted on good terms both agreeing that neither of us owed each other anything.
But I have forgotten that over the last year. I don't feel either of us owe each other anything but I wish if I had such a thing as a wish, I wish she could tell me it again. I wish I could ask her that again. 
I always needed her to approve of what I did and that need was so deep that I could hardly breathe until I got it. I needed to know I was ok in her eyes.
It is that need as disfunctional as it is, still lingers to a degree. I have moved on, pressed forward but the release is not complete.
I pray each day that I will find freedom in Christ and Him alone. Not need for someone to approve so I can move on.
So, there it is.


belmaree1
Female - 56 years old
WESTVILLE, IN
United States
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